Watch Your Step.

When life hurts, it is very easy to want to place blame.  Blame gives definition and blame temporarily removes responsibility from yourself.  What if... I mean what if.... you caused your own circustances and you are blaming someone else?  We all make poor choices.  We all have the ability to recover from these poor choices if we own up to our part in the mess we find ourselves.  Grant it, this is not ALWAYS the case and I am speaking for a party of one (myself).  Consider this.  Before stepping into a new relationship WATCH YOUR STEP.

Don't step back into the same mess you just got out of.  It is so much better to be alone and mending than to take baggage into a relationship.  It is not fair to you and it is not fair to the person you are with.  No need to constantly rehearse what happened in y our past.  Learn from your past.  On the other hand, don't hurt others because you have been hurt.

Take a minute - take a deep breath - heal and then begin the cadence towards your future.